First: What depression is not

Hopelessness, discouragement, darkness, emptiness, and so many more words are often used to describe depression and its effects. This is a big topic, but let’s start first with what depression is not

  • Depression is not something to be ashamed of.

  • Depression is not the same thing as feeling “blue” or “down.”

  • Depression is not a character flaw or the sign of a weak personality.

  • Depression is not a “mood” someone can “snap out of.”


What depression is

  • Depression is an illness that affects the entire body, not just the mind.

  • Depression is an illness that one in five people will suffer during their lifetime.

  • Depression is the leading cause of alcoholism, drug abuse and other addictions.

  • Depression is an equal-opportunity illness – it affects all ages, all races, all economic groups and both genders.

  • At least half of the people suffering from depression do not get proper treatment.


 What does depression feel like?

Watch these characters from the game “The Sims” describe depression.

  • Things just seem “off” or “wrong.”

  • You don’t feel hopeful or happy about anything in your life.

  • You’re crying a lot for no apparent reason.

  • Getting up in the morning requires a lot of effort.

  • Carrying on a normal conversation is a struggle.

  • You’re having trouble making simple decisions.

  • Your friends and family really irritate you.

  • You’re not sure if you still love your spouse/significant other.

  • You’re anxious and worried a lot.

  • You have recurring thoughts of death and/or suicidal impulses.

  • Incessantly and uncontrollably into your mind comes a torrent of negativity.